Because I feel that, in the Heavens above The angels, whispering to one another, Can find, among their burning terms of love None so devotional as that of mother — Edgar Allen Poe Well, it appears as though I let Mother’s Day slip by without making it a topic of this wonderful column. A day late and a dollar short seems to be more than just a motto—but my way of life. But better late than never, as they always say… As we celebrated Mother’s Day last weekend, we hopefully honored the ladies who helped and tried to shape us, nurtured us, taught us and showed us what life and love are about. True, fathers do all of those things, too, but in different ways. It’s not about whose role is bigger or better, and it’s not even about conforming to specific gender roles. It is simply acknowledging that both parents influence our lives through the choices they make with us, and each one’s influence is distinct from the other.